Make effort today to be fully present. Give others the gift of your attention, time and presence.
I enjoy reading relevant research. I came across an article in the Infant Mental Health Journal titled “Foster Parents’ State of Mind With Respect to Attachment: Concordance with Their Foster Children’s Attachment Patterns at 2 and 3 Years of Age”. Wordy title…but of course I had to read it! Here’s what I learned:
- Children with aversive caregiving experiences are at higher risk of abnormal neuroendocrine activity, behavior problems, reduced intellectual development, and attachment challenges.
- Infants need an emotionally committed caregiver if they are to develop in a healthy way
- Children with sensitive and nurturing caregivers develop a sense of self that tells them they are worthy of love and that their caregivers can be trusted
- It has been found that a parent’s state of mind with respect to attachment has been shown to be a good predictor of the child’s attachment type
- Children placed before the age of two have better chances of developing secure attachments; children placed at an older age can have difficulties expressing their needs for soothing which can impede the foster parent understanding how to meet their needs
- Foster parents tend to have healthier attachment styles which may be due to: their lower life stress, stable financial situation, a willingness to attach, and the screening and training process
- The research found that the majority of foster children were able to develop healthy attachments to their foster parents
- Findings indicate that foster care licensing agencies should evaluate foster parents attachment styles and children should be placed with foster parents who display healthy attachment styles
I found this to be highly encouraging and hope that it will guide new parents to evaluate their parenting and attachment styles.